Dear Dad

Sep. 7th, 2010 11:07 am
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Fuck the hell off you fucking prick.

Waking me up (yes, hello time zones not the same?) to tell me what a horrible job I'm doing as a mother is not helpful.

Trying to convince me that my son's emotional problems stem from HAVING LONG HAIR WTF? is not likely, nor probable.

Whining about WHAT A HARDSHIP IT WAS to have my son and husband as guests for ONE NIGHT does not make me feel sorry for you.

I am willing to admit that he has problems. We have consulted his doctor, and we have an appointment with a child behavioural therapist. If SHE thinks all of his problems stem from having long hair, then yes, we will cut it.

BTW: Calling him your granddaughter? Probably not helpful either. And completely denying it? Also not helpful.

Also BTW: The irony of YOU giving ME parenting advice? Totally not lost on me. Rest assured, despite all of the mistakes I make as a parent, being deliberately mean to my children will not be one of them.

Also also BTW: The fact that I didn't mention your drunk, negative bitch of a girlfriend during our conversation proves without a doubt that I am a much better person than you. Because HOMFG I wanted to throw that in your face SO BADLY! I could literally TASTE how good it would feel to shove that down your throat.

I have never hung up on you before today, but I will not hesitate to do it again.

No love whatsoever,
Me.

Date: 2010-09-07 07:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] schemingreader.livejournal.com
I suspect that your dad's obnoxiousness had something to do with Harry's inability to control his reactions. I say that even knowing you've been worried about Harry's tantrums and extreme reactions to the unexpected.

It may be because we're on the same wavelength about so many things, but I think you're a great mom!

Date: 2010-09-07 07:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tripperfunster.livejournal.com
Thank you very much. Your love for your son shows through very much in your posts, so that means a lot to me, coming from you.

I think I'm a great mom. I make mistakes, for sure, but we set clear boundaries and 'don't negotiate with terrorists' (ie. don't give in to tantrums) ;D, but unless my son is 100% compliant all the time, I will never be considered a good mother by my dad.

I honestly don't give a shit what he thinks, but it still hurts to have someone ring you up and be a dick.

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