Wheee! Thank you, my lovely flist! <3 And some talk about my inner lesbian ....

[tripperfunster]

As Demicus said, I can't get that Blondie song out of my head! I feel loved. YOU LOVE ME! YOU REALLY, REALLY LOVE ME! /quote

Now, on to my no-so-latent lesbianism...

I'm not sure if you could tell from my lj, but I'm a fairly ... sexual person. I had sex quite young (my choice) and I've continued to have sex ever since. I'm also pretty much straight. I've had the odd 'crush' on women, I certainly admire women who are smart, and/or funny and/or attractive, but I've never felt sexually drawn to women. Except when I'm sleeping.

If I had to guess, I would say that a good 40% of my sexual dreams involve women. Sometimes women I know, sometimes celebrities and sometimes random gals I don't know. I bring this up because two nights ago I dreamed about Rachel from Glee. I don't particularly like Glee, and I especially don't like Rachel! WTF brain? If I was gonna hit a girl on the cast, it would probably be Jayne Lynch or the chick who plays Santanna. (we won't even talk about my dream about my rl friend and massuese! Although she thought it was hilarious when I told her ...)

Does anyone else have numerous dreams that fall outside of their sexual identity 'norm'? I'm not concerned for my sexuality, I'm just interested to know. I'm not sure if it's relevant, but I'm in a fantastic, committed het relationship with someone that I REALLY enjoy having sex with. Like .. a lot! ;) All day long I draw cocks, look at pictures of cocks, read stories about cocks and then DREAM ABOUT VULVAS! ;D

Also -- funny Valentine kid story.

Every morning my son Quincey crawls into bed with me for some snuggles, and we talk about what's coming up in the day, etc. This morning I mentioned Valentine's Day, and he sort of gagged, in that "I'm 8 and girls are gross" kind of way. I gave him a hug and said "You can by MY Valentine!" He just looked at me and said; "Uh, I'm pretty sure that's illegal." pfft!

Comments

[sumsumlovesyou.livejournal.com]

Haha and THAT is why Quincey is awesome. I hope Ivy gives me one liners as good. We're snuggling in bed right now, but all I'm getting is kicked in the side and having my hair pulled while she laughs at me.

I think it's pretty normal to have sexual dreams outside of what you are actually into. I've had some myself that made me a bit concerned. And yeah. For me, Rachel wouldn't have been first choice. I've always considered myself pretty heterosexual, but I have a thing for androgynous women. And men for that matter. If I ever were in a situation where I would be with that person, I would be at a loss, because it's not the genitalia that I'm attracted to. Regardless, I'm married now and have only dated men. I watch porn, all kinds. M/f, m/m, f/f. Doesn't matter to me, because what I'm attracted to in porn is just the orgasm, not the act. I get that sexuality can be fluid for most, so, I just don't worry about. Like what I like, don't like what I don't like. No biggie. :)

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

Oh, I"m sure your kid will give you TONS of hilarity!

And I wasn't WORRIED, I was just curious if everyone had dreams like that or just us perverts. ;)

[sumsumlovesyou.livejournal.com]

Oh, everyone dreams it. But only us perverts talk about it! :)

[foxestacado.livejournal.com]

Hmm, I have dreams where I am male-bodied? And I have sex with other men. So I guess I am gay in my dreams too.

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

Now see? THAT'S the kind of dream I'd LOVE to have! :D

[foxestacado.livejournal.com]

Hehehe, I think it's my subconscious telling my dreams to dream that way. You should look into lucid dreaming :D I pretty much can dictate how a dream will go once I get put in it, but sometimes my limbic system and frontal lobe want very different things when I'm asleep than when I'm awake :D

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

Years ago i trained myself to lucid dream, but lost the knack for it. I suppose it wouldn't be that hard to try again.

[pennswoods.livejournal.com]

I'm so jealous. I wish I had fun sexy dreams.

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

I have a lot of sex dreams. And dreams where I"m masturbating. (how lame is that???) :D

I also have lots of dreams where I'm having sex with my husband. wtf? I love him, and enjoy having sex with him in rl, but dude! There are SO many celelbrities that I'd love to screw, but i keep dreaming about hubby! :D

[samtastic4.livejournal.com]

wait....you like sex?!!?!?! i had noooo idea ;)

hmm...idk, i usually have very unusual sexual dreams too, with women and men, i figure its some kind of weird subconscious thing and i don't over analyze

on a related note, i had a dream with lea michele in it the other night, she plays rachel on glee. lol, its like we are connected! <3

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

Ahhaa! That is so odd that we would both have gay dreams about the same woman!

I guess I'm just weirded out because I don't even like her. she annoys the shit out of me!

[samtastic4.livejournal.com]

well it wasn't a gay dream, she was just in in....but i happen to like her so its not as weird as you cause you don't like her lol

[akatnamedeaster.livejournal.com]

Never had a dream that's fallen out of my sexual norm since I'm very solidly bi but I have had dreams where I've been male instead of female. They're weird since I more or less look the same sans boobs and plus peen.

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

I've only had one or two dick dreams. (meaning that I have one ..) *sigh* Yeah, those are dreams I can handle! :D

[indybaggins.livejournal.com]

I had very detailed sex with Will Smith in a dream last night. We even stopped to put on a condom. I am not remotely attracted to the man, so... Subconscious is weird!

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

Ha! I wouldn't kick Will Smith out of bed for eating crackers! I would, however kick Rachel from Glee out, because I actively dislike her. :D

[xenafox.livejournal.com]

LOL QUINCEY'S QUOTE.

I wish I had something to add here. But swinging both ways sort of makes these dreams normal in a way for me. Not that I have them much....WHICH IS WEIRD. I read and write porn like it's my fucking job and then I dream about things like...I DON'T KNOW Last night I dreamed about trying to clean up a messy house and getting pissed at a dog that kept getting in my way.

So...exhilirating...

I have had some weird sex dreams but they've been straight..and weird FOR ME I guess not so much for other people. The guys I've banged in these dreams: House (why), HELLBOY (WHY), and the guy who played Spock in the recent Star Trek movie...I actively find him unattractive so wtf.

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

Ha! Yeah, new!Spock doesn't do it for me like the old spock does .. mmmmm!

And oh yeah, I have tons of dreams that are so fucking mundane that I wake up groaning. WHY AM I GROCERY SHOPPING IN MY FUCKING SLEEP??? Or working! Man, I hate it when I wake up and realize that I was helping customers in my sleep. Because God knows i don't do it enough EVERY FUCKING DAY OF MY LIFE!

[arcanetrivia]

I wouldn't say numerous, but certainly a lot more than in waking life, which is, yeah, not sexually drawn to women at all.

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

Good to know! I'm just surprised at the amount that I have, because HELLO? COCK WHORE? Yeah, that's mee!!

[leoparda.livejournal.com]

Happy Valentine's Day *huggle - sneaks a grope*

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

*has a dream where I grope you back*

Thanks hon! <3

[synn.livejournal.com]

LOL on the quip : D

I have disappointingly few sexual dreams, maybe 5, ever... Which of strange, considering.
None of them were outside my norm, though I have had dreams where I'm male, I don't recall that any of them were sexual.

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

You were a dude and didn't have sex? tsk tsk! What a shame! ;)

[demicus.livejournal.com]

Blondie song ☞ two thumbs up; Sally Field quote ☞ (-_o) *gigglesnort*

I could see having a crush on a girl. I think the chick who plays Santanna on Glee is gorgeous.

Re Quincey quote: Illegal, eh? I guess you didn't have to get him Valentine's Day candy 'cause it'd be against the law! ROFL!

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

yeah, I just laughed and told him I wasn't going to MARRY him, for god sakes! ;)

[verizonhorizon.livejournal.com]

I've had some strange sex dreams really beyond the pale, and that goes from women to things I'd only read about in fandom and not do in real life!

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

Ha! Yes! Oh god, I've had some OMFG inappropriate dreams about icky things like family member and such. *shudder*

Aside from the ick factor, I've never had a terribly KINKY dream ... *ponders*

[sra-danvers.livejournal.com]

XD Quincey rules! XD My younger is 13 and she thinks still that love sucks XD

I by the way I'm a lesbian the pro XD Because in fact hate men. I only love them in fanfiction (I hope my husband don't read this ^^ But well,fuck him! ^^ Bad week is baaaaad...