Wheee! Thank you, my lovely flist! <3 And some talk about my inner lesbian ....

[tripperfunster]

As Demicus said, I can't get that Blondie song out of my head! I feel loved. YOU LOVE ME! YOU REALLY, REALLY LOVE ME! /quote

Now, on to my no-so-latent lesbianism...

I'm not sure if you could tell from my lj, but I'm a fairly ... sexual person. I had sex quite young (my choice) and I've continued to have sex ever since. I'm also pretty much straight. I've had the odd 'crush' on women, I certainly admire women who are smart, and/or funny and/or attractive, but I've never felt sexually drawn to women. Except when I'm sleeping.

If I had to guess, I would say that a good 40% of my sexual dreams involve women. Sometimes women I know, sometimes celebrities and sometimes random gals I don't know. I bring this up because two nights ago I dreamed about Rachel from Glee. I don't particularly like Glee, and I especially don't like Rachel! WTF brain? If I was gonna hit a girl on the cast, it would probably be Jayne Lynch or the chick who plays Santanna. (we won't even talk about my dream about my rl friend and massuese! Although she thought it was hilarious when I told her ...)

Does anyone else have numerous dreams that fall outside of their sexual identity 'norm'? I'm not concerned for my sexuality, I'm just interested to know. I'm not sure if it's relevant, but I'm in a fantastic, committed het relationship with someone that I REALLY enjoy having sex with. Like .. a lot! ;) All day long I draw cocks, look at pictures of cocks, read stories about cocks and then DREAM ABOUT VULVAS! ;D

Also -- funny Valentine kid story.

Every morning my son Quincey crawls into bed with me for some snuggles, and we talk about what's coming up in the day, etc. This morning I mentioned Valentine's Day, and he sort of gagged, in that "I'm 8 and girls are gross" kind of way. I gave him a hug and said "You can by MY Valentine!" He just looked at me and said; "Uh, I'm pretty sure that's illegal." pfft!

Comments

[sumsumlovesyou.livejournal.com]

Haha and THAT is why Quincey is awesome. I hope Ivy gives me one liners as good. We're snuggling in bed right now, but all I'm getting is kicked in the side and having my hair pulled while she laughs at me.

I think it's pretty normal to have sexual dreams outside of what you are actually into. I've had some myself that made me a bit concerned. And yeah. For me, Rachel wouldn't have been first choice. I've always considered myself pretty heterosexual, but I have a thing for androgynous women. And men for that matter. If I ever were in a situation where I would be with that person, I would be at a loss, because it's not the genitalia that I'm attracted to. Regardless, I'm married now and have only dated men. I watch porn, all kinds. M/f, m/m, f/f. Doesn't matter to me, because what I'm attracted to in porn is just the orgasm, not the act. I get that sexuality can be fluid for most, so, I just don't worry about. Like what I like, don't like what I don't like. No biggie. :)

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

Oh, I"m sure your kid will give you TONS of hilarity!

And I wasn't WORRIED, I was just curious if everyone had dreams like that or just us perverts. ;)

[sumsumlovesyou.livejournal.com]

Oh, everyone dreams it. But only us perverts talk about it! :)