Day Ten Sex Question...

[tripperfunster]

What's your fav position? Or, for that matter, what's your fav thing to do sex-wise?



69 baby! Probably from reading too much fanfic, but I really, really, really enjoy oral. Giving and getting.

I was always sort of ambivelent about blow jobs in the past. I didn't mind giving them, and duh, most guys love them, but I didn't GET OFF on giving them until reading tons of smutty fanfic.



AND YOU????

Comments

[emmagrant01.livejournal.com]

I've always loved giving blow jobs. In fact, I once in my youth got very drunk and somehow decided it would be a good idea to announce this to a large room full of people. Needless to say I got a LOT of male attention for several weeks after that. :-P

But I think I prefer the two acts separate, TBH. I can't concentrate enough on both things at once, generally speaking.

OMG, these posts are do much fun! :-D

[indybaggins.livejournal.com]

I think I prefer the two acts separate, TBH. I can't concentrate enough on both things at once, generally I agree, I get too focused on my partner to feel anything being done to me, and if I focus on my own pleasure I forget my partner.

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

I like them separate too, but there's justs something so ... I dunno, dirty? about them together. Which is hilarious, because it's not dirty at all, but ...I almost hate to think about it too much, because yeah, fun! But I also love to see porn where there's lots of action too. :D

[randomcreeper.livejournal.com]

I fucking LOVE giving head! Preferably me on my knees.

And I love any position that has my men ramming my ass. I loooove sex.

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

yeah, there's something about the submissive kneeling pose that's just sexy.

[littleroo27.livejournal.com]

I haven't had the opportunity to try a lot yet, but I LOVE anal play. Who says a girl can't be a bottom!

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

So true! I don't think my poor bum could handle full on penetration, but play is certainly fun!

[clayangel.livejournal.com]

I have to agree with enjoying oral, too. ^_^ Both with guys and girls. It's just fun to do!

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

See? Now that I'm older, I kind of wish I'd experimented a bit more before settling down.

I don't know where I'd fall on the Kinsey scale (and god knows I'm a total cock whore), but yeah ... I have lots of lesbian dreams, and I think it's something I'd quite enjoy.

[foxestacado.livejournal.com]

Redact. Redact.

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

Yeah, I pretty much never lock posts. You are more than welcome to comment and delete. I enjoy your imput.<3

[tjs-whatnot.livejournal.com]

Man, it's been a while. If memory serves... I'm a big fan of oral... giving and receiving. Much more than penetration tbh.

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

If I want to get off, I pretty much need more than just penetration. And oral is the best!

[(Anonymous)]

I can't give a guy head, er, not good head unless I dislocate my jaw, because I have lockjaw. So, I've never found that pleasurable. I'm kinda jealous how many of your f-list friends can enjoy it. For me it's pretty much off the menu!

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

I thought lockjaw was like ... a curable type of infection or something? Or do you just mean that your jaw clicks and catches? (or god forbid gets stuck open???)

Yes, I can see how that would make is less pleasurable for both of you. I have a pretty strong gag reflex, so it always has to be on my terms. I can work into going fairly deep, but not right off the hop.

[ragdoll.livejournal.com]

I also loved giving head. I still do -- just haven't had the opportunity to do that in...well, far too long. 69 is great in theory, but my partners were never coordinated enough to really make it work well.

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

Hubby and I have a pretty big height disparity, so I pretty much have to be on top (or side by side) for it to kink both of our necks. :D

Hey, if you like giving head, you probably don't need to look TOO far for a partner ;) Most guys won't turn you down.

I'm kidding, of course.

[xenafox.livejournal.com]

I'm boring. I like doggy style....I really used to like giving blowjobs but for some reason the taste eventually made me feel icky :(

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

It might be something he's eating? I've heard it can really affect the taste.

Also? I'd be a shitty porn star, but I don't swallow. Well, I'd be a shitty porn star for LOTS of reasons, but that one too. :D

[vividescent.livejournal.com]

None. :/ Vaginal ultrasounds are agonizingly painful for me. I think that pretty much sums it all up for me. Vaginal ultrasounds really aren't supposed to hurt like that, but it never fails to. Pretty sure it's something to do with the endometriosis or something. No boyfriends, no anything for me.

[amanuensis1.livejournal.com]

*hugs* It's frustrating when everything seems to be about the vaginal penetration in order to be sex, isn't it? You're among sympathetic (and empathetic) voices here, though. Can you enjoy other things, like clitoral stimulation? (You don't have to be drawn into dialogue if you don't want to. ^_^ )

[indybaggins.livejournal.com]

Love to give oral, receive only when the person knows what they're doing *g* I really like getting fucked from behind, over a table/sofa, or being pushed down belly-first on the bed. Oh and I love to use a strap-on. *sighs* I wish I had someone to sleep with RIGHT NOW. I don't though. Being single sucks.

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

I've never tried a strap on, but yeah, the thought of if it is pretty fucking sexy!

Yes, I also enjoy most positions when I'm bent over something, or on my hands and knees. (except my arms get tired ... I need to work out more. :D)

[akatnamedeaster.livejournal.com]

I used to be all about the oral (giving and getting) until I met Mr. Cat. Now I would have to say my favorite is good ol'
missionary since he hits the spot every time, multiple times. First man I've been with who's done that to me.

Don't wonder why I draw male equipment as large as I do, at this point it's what I've been looking at for over 10 years. ;)

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

:D I have the same 'problem'. :D :D

Sadly, though, I rarely can orgasm from penetration alone. Well, it's not SAD, per se, but it sure would be nice!

[oliversnape.livejournal.com]

Ahahaha I see, this is just your clever way of getting dirty confessions out of us all. ;)

I like both topping and bottoming. I'm an equal opportunist that way, I suppose. I would go into lurid detail, but this is not a locked post. So I shall leave you with this Snarry art (mostly SFW - no bits are shown), which is the best position ever when someone wants to feel utterly possessed. Mm.

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

I think that's why I've always liked 'big' guys (and I don't only mean penis size). It really does feel great to be 'posessed' by a big, strong man!

Not that I have a great basis for my opinion here, but I think I'd both top and bottom too. Why limit yourself??

[sumsumlovesyou.livejournal.com]

Ooh, that's a toughie. I like so many. When I'm feeling lazy, there's nothing I love more than being on my back, ankles on his shoulders, legs together. I may or may not be lazy a lot. But doggy style, his hand on my neck shoving me down into the mattress.

Sex act, though? I find wearing all my clothes and having an up skirt hand bit kind of naughty and awesome. Especially when I was with my ex, we were awful perverts, and I would sit in his lap in a skirt and knee socks, and call him daddy. (he was 19 years my senior) Yes, we were a bit of an unusual pair... Husband is younger. One time I made him get into a boy scout uniform. Hahaha not sexy, sadly.

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

boy scout? pffft!

I've never done any roleplay, although I can see that it would be fun. I offered a couple of years ago, when hubby and I were both dressed up as the Blades of Glory boys, but he wasn't interested.

He's very tolerant of my slash obsession, but doesn't exactly share in the squee. :D

[droxy.livejournal.com]

I plead the 5th. =)

But I am a exit only gal. Anal effing hurts like hell and I can't tolerate it. Do not like pain at all.

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

I sort of agree. I only tried it once, when I was muuuch younger, and didn't know all about the prep. Oh fanfic, where were you when I needed you???

[narryaworry.livejournal.com]

Reverse cowgirl and spooning. I don't know why, but I love having someone pressed against my back. I'm also a huge fan of flogging and spanking.

I actually really detest oral, either giving or receiving. I have a huge hang up about what goes in my mouth and it kind of transferred to what goes in other people's mouths as well. I can't enjoy getting it and while I am willing to give it oral will never be a form of foreplay for me because it just kills any arousal I have. Add in one hell of a gag reflex and it's just not fun.

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

I have a pretty healthy gag reflex too, so it really has to be on my terms.

I find spanking in fic VERY sexy, but have never done it in RL. (aside from our whole family smacking each other's butts with affection.)

[chocolate-frapp.livejournal.com]

I love it all but my favorite has to be when the guy goes down on me (I'm happy to return the favor).

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

Yes for me, it's a guaranteed orgasm. Well, yanno, if they know what they're doing down there.

I once had a boyfriend who couldn't find a clitoris with a map and a flashlight. *sigh*

[pennswoods.livejournal.com]

I do enjoy receiving oral and it is what works to get me off, but when I'm in the right space for it, I really like being bent over a desk from behind or on my back with my legs up being pounded into the mattress hard and fast and deep.

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

Oh yes, mattress pounding! Being folded in half is a lot more fun than it sounds. :D

[pern-dragon.livejournal.com]

Hmm, fave position? Him on his right side, me on my back, my right leg between his, my left leg over his left hip. It's the least taxing and allows for easy acess to play on my own. :D Of course, I also enjoy "doggy style," and being folded in half with my feet over his shoulders to have that "pounded into the mattress" occasion. LOL I enjoy giving head (and have been told I'm good at it by many club-flings as well as more significant others), but I don't enjoy recieving it. And it has nothing to do with him "not doing it right" (he was "trained" by lesbians--ROFL!) but just that I'm too sensitive (to the point of discomfort/pain). Hell, Idon't even touch my clit directly myself! My oversensitive clit and nipples have made it a very interesting journey through life in that I have had to instruct people on what NOT to do, which of course is pretty much against almost everything we see in porn or read about in erotica or even experience with the majority of women! *sigh* But, (she says, grinning) my G-spot is quite developed. ;P

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

Oh yes! We do that scissor thing too. It IS a very comfortable, relaxing position that frees up the hands! :D

That is funny about teaching what NOT to do. YOU ARE RUINING IT FOR THE REST OF US!!!! :D

[demicus.livejournal.com]

I call top! My absolute favorite orgasm-guaranteed position. :¬)

[tripperfunster.livejournal.com]

If it's just penetration, top is my best bet for orgasm, but is still a gamble. I do like being the one in control sometimes though :D

[leoparda.livejournal.com]

Boy am I late to this party...

My first actual sexual experience was giving my then-boyfriend oral sex, which he happily reciprocated. Oral is fun but I see it as foreplay.

Penetration, it took a lot of experimenting but with the right positioning missionary works wonders (it's more a matter of pressure than friction with me). Doggy is also good, and i'll get on top if I'm more interested in pleasing him than getting my own rocks off.