Day Ten Sex Question...

[tripperfunster]

What's your fav position? Or, for that matter, what's your fav thing to do sex-wise?



69 baby! Probably from reading too much fanfic, but I really, really, really enjoy oral. Giving and getting.

I was always sort of ambivelent about blow jobs in the past. I didn't mind giving them, and duh, most guys love them, but I didn't GET OFF on giving them until reading tons of smutty fanfic.



AND YOU????

Comments

[amanuensis1.livejournal.com]

*hugs* It's frustrating when everything seems to be about the vaginal penetration in order to be sex, isn't it? You're among sympathetic (and empathetic) voices here, though. Can you enjoy other things, like clitoral stimulation? (You don't have to be drawn into dialogue if you don't want to. ^_^ )

[vividescent.livejournal.com]

*hugs back* Thanks. :) And to answer your question: not for some time now. When I was a teenager I used to enjoy that (pretty much masturbation as guys just weren't interested in me.) as much as is possible when your parents treat it like a *really bad thing*. It was some time before I finally convinced myself I shouldn't feel guilty.

At some point in my teenage yours the orgasms I got tended to lead to abdominal pain and even vaginal bleeding. This wasn't even anywhere near my period and it was pretty scary to me, but I didn't tell anyone. I was kind of... raised in ignorance. My parents didn't teach me about sex. My mom never talked to me about periods or cramping and she never took me to a gynocologist (I doubt this was intentionally neglectful as I know my mom never went to a gynocologist until after I had gone and my sister and I talked her into going to one herself. I'm not sure how much she knew about gynos, if anything).

In fact, I had no idea what a gynocologist WAS until I was in my late 20s and had a very violent ovarian cyst rupture that lead to a bunch of debilitating symptoms for several health issues I hadn't been aware of suddenly becoming regular - some of which was due to endometriosis. Since then I spent a lot of time struggling to get diagnosed and I finally got a laproscopy in early 2010 to remove the endometriosis I had. I had a pretty good year and now the endometriosis is back and I'm getting a complete hysterectomy early next month.

My sex drive has been pretty low since the ovarian cyst rupture and even some years before that, too.