Day Eighteen Porny Question

[tripperfunster]

How many people have you slept with?

Now, I suppose I'm talking P in V (or pick your orafices/organs), but you may also interpret this as any sort of sexual congress. I'm a bit of an 'all the way girl' (like you couldn't tell ...), so my numbers would be about the same. It's not like I ONLY do basic sex, but chances are, if I'm doing the other stuff, there's likely to be penetration too.

Post is not locked, but everyone is welcome to comment and delete, or just post anon. I'd love a subtle shout out, so I can tell who you are (without your mom knowing) but plain old anon is fine too.



Okay, mine is 11, which ... actually seems kinda low. for a slut, like myself I think the number would be much higher, but I'm a long term relationship kinda gal. Not that I didn't have any 'flings', but even then, I was pretty much always looking for Mr. Right.

Hubby Number One was #7, and I pretty much thought I was done. It was quite a shock to be back on the dating scene, lemme tell ya!

#1, #7 and #10 were virgins.
#2 was a fling on the beach in Hawaii.
#8, #9, #10 and #11 were musicians. (I knew them all quite well, these weren't groupie things)
If I could 'take it back' I would UN-sleep with #6 and #9.
Most were tall, aside from #1 and #7.
Most were same or older than me, aside from #10 (and maybe #9?)
Best in bed is #11 (thank God, since we're married now)
Amazingly, the worst thing I ever got was a case of crabs. From #3, I think. (although, I was a huge thrift store shopper, and I suppose it could have come from that????)
All of my 'men' were men. My gate didn't swing both ways, although I suspect my hinges have loosened a bit in the past few years.
I never cheated (P in V) on anyone, but came pretty close once. (all clothes on, but yeah, not exactly a Mormon date, if you catch my drift.)



Now I'm dying to hear all the dirt on you guys! :D

Comments

[samtastic4.livejournal.com]

zero!

yeah, i know, i am such a whore ;) someday that number will be like...a billion! or at least 1, lol

[eeyore9990.livejournal.com]

The hubs is #6 for me. #'s 1-3 were very good friends of mine who ended up becoming more and then... sliding back into being friends. They were all in my wedding, actually. #4 was my "older man" (he was only 10 years older, lol). #5 was a total one night stand. And then there was the man. And I've done things with #6 that are illegal in most states and some countries. Heh.

[clayangel.livejournal.com]

7! Maybe 7 1/2. But we won't count that half for this list. It was a cheating thing...

#1 was an early boyfriend that got weird and clingy
#2 was my (then) best friend's husband! Surprisingly, not the reason she's no longer my best friend.
#3 was my first girlfriend.
#4 was a fuck buddy
#5 & #6 were together. ;)
and #7 is my current girl. ♥

[(Anonymous)]

One. And not even P in V, although we were very satisfied doing our non-P in V. It was quite fun. These days my V sees a lot of action with my silicone toys. - F.

[narryaworry.livejournal.com]

1. Nothing all that exciting going on for me.

[pern-dragon.livejournal.com]

Oh jeez... I used to keep a list, but once we started going to swing clubs, it got unwieldy (especially if you count me giving head). *snort* So, it's definitely double digits, but not triple--which is a wide range, I know, but seriously, I was in the 20s before I stopped keeping track. Funny enough, hubby was #7. :D I wonder where that list is now... maybe hubby knows. LOL Now, if you were to ask things like how many at a time, then I can tell you exact numbers... ;P *runs away cackling*

[(Anonymous)]

Hmmm. Well, I'm so old that I've genuinely forgotten a lot of my mis-spent youth, but ...

1. Was pretty much a date-rapist, a guy I worked with who said I 'owed' him because he'd driven me home in the rain.

2. Was the first husband who wasn't much better and said I 'had to' do it whenever he wanted because that was what marriage was all about.

3, 4, 5 and 6 were all nice guys on the con circuit, none of them conventionally handsome although one looked a bit like Rhys Ifans, all fun to be with and between them helped to repair my self-esteem. Rhys Ifans wanted me to marry him, apparently, although he never mentioned it to me!

7. Was/is the second husband, who bears a striking resemblance to Baldrick in 'Blackadder II'. I'm happy with him and frankly getting a bit past it now anyway!

Numbers 3 and 7 were virgins, and numbers 1 and 4 probably the most experienced; the rest were just ordinary, really. Never had a celebrity of any sort, alas, but probably just as well - I'd never be able to keep quiet about it if I had.

Anyway, it looks like 7 ... plus a couple more where it wasn't fully consummated 'and some fell on stony ground'.

[synn.livejournal.com]

um, 1,

but if I cheat and count anything beyond kissing, the number jumps to a whopping... 5 or so.
I really don't go out enough.

[oliversnape.livejournal.com]

Four.

#1 we both were virgins, so it was funny and awkward.
#2 was extremely selfish. And completely shocked when I left.
#3 was amazing. Still one of my best friends, and if he were here and unattached, I would jump.his.bones.
#4 I sort of regret but it had been three years and I at least made him wait till we'd been dating a month. He claimed I wasn't very enthusiastic, but I can say now that he had a small and unsatisfactory cock and thought he was a god. :P

/wonders if tomorrow's post will be about how many sex toys we all have.

[snapechic76.livejournal.com]

4. I am so sheltered! Lol!!

[pennswoods.livejournal.com]

10, and it would have been higher if some of the guys I fancied had been a little more interested in me. Thinking about where they were from makes me proud of doing my part to foster intercultural understanding:

#2 was from Germany
#7 was from Australia
#8 was from Japan
#9 was from China

I regret I didn't mix it up more - there are way too many Americans on my list.

[drinkingcocoa.livejournal.com]

Hmm. Didn't want to leave too much of an internet trail, but Pennswoods' way of doing it is interesting. Let's see about a demographic breakdown.

Genders fall into male and female, ages +/- 8 years from mine, I think. No virgins. ETA: Gack. I forgot. Okay, at least one virgin.

Ethnic spread: white, Latino, African American, Jewish.

Definition of "sex": mutual consent, mutual enjoyment, orgasm or that person's equivalent for at least one party.

I tend overwhelmingly toward long-term and I learned the hard way that I'm sticking to monogamy. The actual number is much lower than I wanted and infinitely higher than I thought it would be. I fail at casual. One of the few times I tried, I found myself compelled to ask the person's last name and it turned out that this random stranger was the ex of an ex. *headdesk*

[chocolate-frapp.livejournal.com]

Eight guys. (intercourse specifically, the number would be a lot higher if I counted guys i just fooled around with.)

[joanwilder.livejournal.com]

Haaa, I counted and re-counted, but it's true: 11. Only one was a one-off, and my husband was # 8. These're pretty evenly divided between the different chapters of my life: college, USMC, RL.

[atanvarne-lj.livejournal.com]

wonders if tomorrow's post will be about how many sex toys we all have.

Would that include the dozen dildos our roofers found under the roof? True story, dat.

[atanvarne-lj.livejournal.com]

1. I started dating him when I was 17, and we'll have been married for 30 years this June.

[arcanetrivia]

#1 a college boyfriend (who was also a virgin as far as I know)

#2 the man I am now married to (4th anniversary tomorrow!), who, er, had had a good number of partners before me, even in just 3 years

#3 a sort of fling in a brief experiment with polyamory (husband is suited for it; I am really not)

#4 very brief drunken encounter that was stupid

The best is definitely #2, which, as you say, is fortunate, since I've married him. #3 was tender and attentive and all that nice stuff, but also rather, ah, endowed, to the point it was sometimes painful. #4, um, needed work, shall we say.

#2 is also the only one I've ever had completely unprotected, could-have-got-pregnant sex with, although that's only a technical possibility since that one time we got nowhere near ejaculation.

Never got any diseases I'm aware of, although 2, 3, and 4 were all without barrier protection (just birth control pills, except the aforementioned one incident, or the fact that I later got spayed).

[irielle.livejournal.com]

5 for me, and three were virgins. To quote the 80s movie "Gotcha" -- "wirgins and wodka!" The best was a virgin, and #4 sadly, although I supposed it would be worse if the best was my soon-to-be ex-husband who is #5.

[sumsumlovesyou.livejournal.com]

I'm about to become the biggest hoe on your page! *Covers face in shame* Don't judge me!
#18
Omg! I am blushing right now! I'm praying someone posts 20 so I can face myself tomorrow!
I can explain!

#1 should get a swift kick to the groin, as well as #2. I was taken advantage of in a very negative way both times. I was young, and they most definitely weren't. :/ you live, you learn. Sadly, #4 used to be a friend who also took advantage of me. Same with #16. Well, I talk to 16 now. He's spent years apologizing for his douchery, if you can believe it.
Took #3's virginity.
#5 was 19 years my senior, well, quite a few on the list are 10+ years older than me.
#14 had JUST turned 19! (I felt like such a cougar!)
#10, 11, 12 were a curiosity. Two of the 'hot guys' I had gone to HS. (I never dated anyone from my home town. I got picked on for being fat/weird, so, I went onto college very young.)

See... I should explain that I have spent 75% of my life morbidly obese. I lost 100+ lbs years ago. So, that 1, 2, and 4, they were pretty awful people...

After I lost the weight, got thin and smokin, the world was my oyster. All those years of pent up want? I sort of went bananas. Dating to me was a buffet, and I had a 5 year open relationship so that I could have my cake and eat it too. I just went crazy. I've always been a very sexual person, but suddenly, it was like I could have ANYONE! I got so bad, I almost tried to seduce one of my friends newly divorced dads. I stopped myself before I even got close. There are just some lines you can't cross.

I have always been excruciatingly careful and safe, never contracted anything. I never cheated, never helped anyone else cheat, and excluding 1, 2, and 4, I'm actually on very good friend terms with all of them. We talk regularly. A bunch of them even came to my wedding. I married #18, and I'm 100% committed.

But in my fantasies? I'm probably in the 100's! Haha :P

Yep. Still feeling scandalous. Oh well. Someone had to be the winner/loser, and I guess it was me...

[sumsumlovesyou.livejournal.com]

Just don't ask about fooled around with, because then I may have to attend a sex-a-holics anonymous meeting, and I swear, I don't fit in with those people. I would know. I went to a meeting once. Don't ask...

Oh! Random, but when I got out of high school, I ended up running into a girl from my small town. By age 20, she had slept with 81 people. Eighty. One. People. When did she find time!? I men, heck, there's only 2700 people in our home town, and after you subtract all the women, children, and elderly, that's not a huge pool! Sadly, her numbers are probably not the biggest out there. Small towns... I tell you what...

[sumsumlovesyou.livejournal.com]

Oh hell. #19. I forgot the just turned 20 year old boy who looked like an anime girl, cooked amazing vegan food, liked to wear a dog collar, be told what to do, and was really into D&D.

[xenafox.livejournal.com]

I've only slept with Keith, and made out with 3 chicks.

....Yea. Boring I know xD

[demicus.livejournal.com]

Seven! Good grief, seven! I think I'll fold (actually I folded a long time ago).

Number one was, well, my number one! We were both virgins & we still chat on FB every few weeks. I don't think I ever found 'the one', but the number of guys would seem to indicate that I had fun trying (for most of the time, anyway).

[pern-dragon.livejournal.com]

LOL! Dont worry, darlin, I'm still the sluttiest (and happy and proud of it!) one who's replied so far. ;D Hey, there's nothing wrong with owning your sexuality and enjoying it! *vehement nod* :)

[midnitemaraud-r.livejournal.com]

Don't worry. I'm well over 20. :-P Er, I stopped counting when I hit 50. If I'm being objective, it's probably @ 60 . Now, if I included guys I didn't have intercourse with but did more than just snogging ... *has massive coughing fit*

ETA: I should have prefaced that with I'm 44, and never married. I, um, had a lot of fun when I was young.